Sometimes i like to know a man IQ before i draw close to him.
Not the IQ of books or basic intelligence,i like the IQ of his interpersonal relationship with women.
This IQ is what determines how sucexful a man can be when doing things with women.
Does he see women as a difficult specie, or the type you cannot understand.
If he does then i class him as a person with a low IQ.
? Why
Because women are not difficult, you only need to know how they process information and you will be sucexful with any woman.
Please note,in some case this sucex is based on short tern interaction only cos once your interaction takes an extended time such as marriage or colleague,your interpersonal relationship will detoriate except you have the highest level of tolerance for laxity and indiscipline.
To make matters easy for us to understand how to be sucexful with a woman, we need to take a few factors into consideration,
1- first is that,the more matured a man is,the more he can be sucexful with a wide variety of women,even those who may be challenging to do things with.
2- secondly, alot of stress between the genders can be reduced when we take the genesis of the problem into consideration. The genesis of the problem is that the both genders process information differently, at the face value,this seems irrelevant but lets go deep. Our life is guided by the decisions we make,the decision is a product of our knowledge and experience in the school of life. Our knowledge is coloured by our prejudice,ignorance,vice and our perception or how we perceive things. This brings us back to what was said above,”how we process information”
A brief intro to our brain
The human brain is made of two hemispheres,the right and the right. The right side is the logical,analytical,calculative brain while the right side is the emotional,imaginative, and spiritual side of the brain.
Men process more of their information through the left Side while women do so with the right side. So the same information will be processed differently by these two sides of the brain.
Another factor that plays a role here is the pain and pleasure principle.
The left brain is not really deterred by pain,i.e.it will do what has to be done even if he for-sees pain in it but if the right brain for-sees pain in anything,it will refrain from doing it.
Lets take an example.
A husband and wife have a son who just entered secondary school, the husband wants the boy to be in boarding house so he can have better concentration and read though he will suffer a bit from senior students who will maltreat him and lack of proper care from school authority including several bouts of hunger strike. The father know all these incentives of boarding but he believe that suffering are lessons while the wife can see more of the suffering and decide that it will not be in the boys best interest to go to boarding house. If the issue degenerated into arguments,the woman will accuse the husband of being wicked and heartless since he wants the boy to go suffer and the husband will accuse his wife of being myopic sighted.
In cases like this and a host of other interpersonal issues both as friends,colleagues and many other kinds of association,i cannot pretend to know any universal formula that will solve the problem but there are ways/methods to apply which will reduce tension and create understanding.
First is that,none of the genders should use abusive terms on another, for men,they usually say women have fish brain or lack any form of logical thinking,the brutal kind of men will outrightly say she is stupid.
This infuriates women cos experiments have shown that women are more intelligent than men. Women s intelligence is exemplified by their ability to multitask, though this places enormous psychological pressure on them. This pressure is what necessitates the logic of a man. The two gender complete/6ompliment each other,none is more vital than the other. Its like a car and its engine,none is more important than the other.
When the woman accuses the man as insensitive,the man feels bad because he knows he cares for he and wants the best for her even if he does not show it in an emotional way like she does.
So if we translate the iq to mean how much a man can understand and relates sucexfully with a woman then we are getting it.
A real man has the primary responsibility of protecting his woman,this is why men want to be her hero(even the one that is completely daft wants to be a hero too). How can you protect who you know nothing about. Being her hero implies you know her,top of the knowledge you need to know about women is that they are emotional in nature. When you know this,then you learn her,study her to understand her,every woman is new book to read. When you read and understand her then you have earned the right to be her hero,the double benefit of being her hero is that it will take you to higher levels of suce.
Beside every sucexful man is a woman,when a woman gives a man her all,the sky will be his springboard to sucex.
