Our attitude is the prime factor of our life, our attitude is the key to sucex in every endeavour, though sometimes we fail to maintain a positive attitude in the face of challenges. For us to maintain a positive attitude, it is appropriate that we create the most compelling ideal of our self, once this is in place, we will be empowered to see life from a perception that supports proactive and constructive actions. Top on the list to create is the idea that whatever lies before us is not as strong as what lies inside us, you are greater than you know and more powerful than you think hence all of lives events are tailored to arouse the best in you. You have a wealth of knowledge which is unique to your needs as a person and to your career and to the role you play in the scheme of life. Walk like the champion you are, talk with the confidence needed for sucex, believe you can always triumph whatever comes your way, believe there is an answer to every puzzle you face.
I came to a conclusion on challenges a few years back after examining many of the daily puzzles i had. I discovered that when there was a challenge and am panicking or asking
“why me”
“why now”
“oh no not this time”
“ommmm,”
The solution to the challenge is question seems far-fetched but when i sit back or stop worrying and simply believe there is a solution to the challenge……like magic a solution or idea pops into my head and i follow it to fruition. It usually solves issues for me. When i first learnt this years back, the first thing i did whenever i had any challenge was to laugh it off and pretend it was not there. Then i allowed my mind to brainstorm a bit about what to do to solve it. Sometimes this attitude made me seem unserious, there was this day my elder sister accidentally locked the key to my room in the room , she came out and told me, she was alarmed cos the only way out was to break the door which she knew was going to be stressful in addition to the damage it will give the door. While she was telling me within me i was like “how to i get out this mess” to minimize the growing tension in her, i started laughing, she got irritated by my laughter cos here she was ,telling me a serious issue and the only thing i could do was to laugh. I told her to relax, at a point she felt the only reason i would act like that was because i had a spear key, though she was not sure cos everybody in the house knew how careless i was with keys and the fact that i often change my locks cos i always misplaced all the triple keys for it.
Later i sat down and thought deeper, i got the idea to use a stick and try to bring out the key through the window. That was the first time i had such ideas, all the previous times i forgot my keys inside the room,i broke the door and had to re-adjust the lock areas. Infact my door was the only door in the whole house that was using external lock from the keys installed on the door when it was put in place.
This was over 20years ago but to date, i still use this formula of believing a solution will come.
Believe in yourself, in your ability to solve the riddles of life.
You can…..yes you can…….oh yes you can if you think you can then you will can