BHIT MOTIVATIONAL 10
unfinished thought
The pain we experience during challenges are of 4 kinds.
The first level is when we go through difficult times with none to talk to.
A second level of pain is when the person we aught to talk to is unavailable.
Still higher up the arc is when the person we hoped to share with drives us away when we need them the most.
….Drives one crazy…..breaks the mind.
The greatest pain is when the person you aught to talk to is the source of the pain.
The ultimate question we must ask ourself is not whether our friends loved ones and associate are there for us. Rather we should ask which category of pain we inflict on those around us in any of the above ways.
Everyone you see bears a silent pain. Some hide theirs in a smile,some hide it in a painsive mood,
Some lack the mental strength to hide anything,if you go close during their difficult times,you will get it hot.
Wisdom sometimes involves that we slow down to understand when we are needed.
Sometimes it doesn’t cost much,it may be just sitting together in a dining table.
It can find expression when we listen to the mindless chatter of a troubled wife or babe.
It can be as simple as holding ones hand .
It can be a hug…….long huge heal deeper than the best counselling or therapy sessions.
