One of my clients told me that one of his first-degree relatives used to say to him, when a misunderstanding occurred between them, “You are pathetic,” and it affected him severely, to the point of sadness, crying, and staying at home. Why?
He used to have these questions, as if a volcano would one day explode in anger and crush those around him, until he met one of his friends and told him about it. It is enough for you to be proud that you are still good with him despite his harm to you, as this is a sign of your good upbringing, then do not let doubt ring your mind that you are indeed a cause for pity, not everything that is said about us is like that, so rest assured, my friend.
Then my client added, saying: It was only an hour later that I sent a message to that relative through a social networking program. In order to tell him that I am fine and that he needs a psychologist to help him modify his aggressive behavior, and that I bear all the expenses of the sessions, and that this aggressive behavior must be changed; So that others do not alienate him.
I was really sympathetic to his condition and wanted to help him for his own sake, but he did not reciprocate my feelings of brotherhood, as he abused me in writing through that program and then the ban, and here I really want to help him because he is a kind-hearted person; But he is hostile when there is a difference of opinion between him and another person.. So I smiled and said to him: Your morals are Muhammadan.
This story was transmitted after obtaining the consent of its owner. This is due to a need in Jacob’s soul, which is to simplify the concept of “taste considerations”; Although this concept was very popular and well received by some, it is still in the realm of philosophy for others.
Suad Safir Alshehri @Suad_S_Alshehri is a Saudi writer
