The psychology of quiet people
” The quiet person is a very dangerous person” – old quote.
The above word is a truth and is a lie.
Its validity is dependent on who you are and how you treat quiet people. By nature quiet people are not better than the baddest guys, its just that they have learnt how to tame the wild animal in them. Sometimes people are quiet cos they have examined life and found that most pursuit people engage in is total vanity hence they try to stay away from a crazy world by being isolated from it in a way (being quiet).
Inherently quiet people are good people but that does not mean they lack wicked imaginations. Now most people see quiet people as stupid or weak people ….which is a very wrong impression. When evil minded people see quiet people as weak people the next thing that comes to their mind is
” How do I exploit this weakling”
Then they go on to manipulate, abuse or use the quiet person to their advantage. In so doing they push the quiet person to the wall and when the quiet person reacts to their inhuman behavior with a sense of accumulated grievance (from a chain of abuse from the present person or other people ) then they will say
“I though you were a quiet person”
“so you have been pretending all the while”
“I thought you were a good person”
And many more self righteous talks.
But the truth is that they were the ones who elicited that response through their wickedness. .
Another aspect of quiet people is that sometimes they see through the fake and empty or trivial conversation a lot of people involve themselves in. In order for them not be fake, they don’t get involved in such conversations.
Then when they are in the mist of decent people or in important conversations they start talking to the surprise of onlookers.
Another psychology of quiet people is that some are deep introverts who are only comfortable in the mist of only a few close relatives, family or age old friends. This type will not talk much until they are in the mist of those considered as close to then,you then you will see a parrot in action.
Anyway a quiet person is a good person to be around.
Treat a quiet person with respect and you will get the best from him, s/he will be an eternal friend you can count on.
Enjoy them whenever you are with then, be friendly and don’t try to abuse them cos their wickedness is worse than that of a normal wicked person.
Eleas Stanley